What Happened to Jay Manning?

Jay Manning and AJ Lester are exactly the same person: me :)

Jay Manning is the pseudonym I originally used for many years with Porn Free Power, and AJ Lester is my real name.

Either way, I’m the only person who has ever been associated with Porn Free Power, and everything else I’ve ever shared about myself is 100% genuine and factual.

If you want to know more, please read on for some background.

The Background and Why I Used a Pseudonym

When I first started Porn Free Power in 2014, I decided to use the pseudonym “Jay Manning” on my website and materials.

This was mainly to separate my Porn Free Power work from some other projects I’d been working on, but also partly because I was a bit self conscious about using my real name in connection with quitting porn at that time (maybe you can relate).

Now it’s been long enough and I’ve reached a point where I’m happy for people to know my real name, so I’m now using it for everything I do with Porn Free Power.

Besides the Name, Everything Else Has Always Been 100% Genuine

Even though I used a different name in the past, I’m still the exact same person as I’ve always described on my website and in my materials.

So all other details I’ve ever shared about my background, my personal story, my challenges with quitting porn and everything else are completely factual.

The only change is the name you see on my emails, website and resources.

Why I Decided to Use My Real Name

After all these years of helping people to overcome porn addiction, I’ve entered a new stage of what I want to achieve with Porn Free Power.

In particular, the process I’ve developed for quitting porn permanently now works so well that I really want to reach more people with it so I can have an even greater impact in future.

In doing this, it simplifies things a lot to just use my real name.

I also now provide other services besides help with porn addiction recovery (especially coaching people in relationships and communication), which I already deliver under my real name.

Because these other services also help people who are dealing with porn addiction, it actually makes more sense now for me to use the same name for everything I do so it’s all aligned.

And of course, I’ve also now reached a point where I’m no longer concerned about people knowing about my difficulties with quitting porn in the past :)

You Can Still Call Me What You Want

In practice, I know that addressing people by a particular name is very habitual and can be hard to change once it sticks.

So if we’re chatting by email or in person, I absolutely don’t care if you call me “AJ” or keep calling me “Jay”.

I’m still the same person either way and I’m going to keep working hard to give you all the help and support you need to quit porn for life.

Please just ask if you have any questions or concerns about the name change or anything else.

PS: If I missed something during the changeover and you still see the name “Jay Manning” anywhere on this website or in any materials, please do me a favour and let me know!

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Testimonials
"Dear AJ

Thank you for your loving, supportive and non judgmental guidance through this hard time. Your regular exercises are a great help in breaking the bonds of this addiction and your weekly check ups are a reminder that I'm not alone in this battle.

After almost 20 years of fighting this addiction on my own, you have given me the tools to break it's chains. I was so close to losing my wife and family but now we are closer than we had ever hoped to be.

All that ugly guilt and shame has been washed away and in its place a sense of humility, forgiveness and lots of love.

I pray for God's continued strength for you as you continue in your mission.

Thank you"
Anthony
South Africa


"Kia ora AJ,

my name is Sean im from New Zealand I just wanted to send you an email about my experience and how you have helped me regain strength back in this area of my life.

I have been trying to kick porn in the ass for a very long time, feeling alone and frustrated I found your site through Google search about six months ago and signed up to your awesome resources strait away. my back ground with this is one like many before me and has been an ongoing battle for many years, but I'm now definitely on the road too recovery :).

through your site I have learnt some very good tips and strategies to help battle the urges and feelings of this addiction, every bit of information I have received has been very relevant and helpful, thank you so much.

I have started an mens accountability group with a few of my friends and am going to get them to sign up to the site.

Also is it possible to make a small donation somewhere?, as I feel like I would like to contribute in some way.

its so crazy how something like this can be so damaging to your whole life mentally and physicaly, but with people like you who tell it straight up as it is theres hope for men and women around the globe, again thank you!"
Sean, New Zealand


"I used to think that porn was something I couldn't get over, but I was wrong. Once I started using Porn Free Power, I found it easy to jump start my recovery process. Each of AJ's resources is filled with effective steps that helped me break the addictive cycle.

Additionally, his online calls are extremely helpful because they are tailored to my needs. Finally, he has an effective accountability system set up which has helped me get to core of why I used porn in the first place. His accountability system has enabled me to become more transparent with myself and others about my porn use and has motivated me to continue my recovery journey.

I wouldn't be here without AJ's guidance in the process. Thanks for everything you've done with PFP!"
Sam-Oakland, California


"Hi AJ.

I just wanna say how its going with me and its really going great took your advice and it felt great. to be honest the support you gave me helped me I feel so free and awesome since porn is out of my life now that I have a vision and a future.

AJ it really means alot that you took the time to write to me. You could have done something else but you chose to help me and I appreciate it.

AJ I open my heart to you and I wanna say that it really means alot that there is someone who I could talk to who doesnt judge or reject me but helps me and walks with me for who im gona be in the future.

In the past I never cared about myself. I always though the problem was with me and that I am a washout but through you I start believing im myself. You helped me see that you can choose to stand back up.

Thank you for understanding my circumstances you made me feel that im not alone what im going through.

If I did not find someone like you to helped me I would never have the courage to stand up. I can say today I learned alot by going through that and now I can say no.

Today its all new looking after myself and my lifestyle. Im still young and my whole life is still in front of me.

Im almost 21 and im a new man and just wanted to say thanks for all the messages you wrote to me when I faced that but its all thanks to you i have left it for good.

Thanks for all your emails and the way you inspire me. Each of us has a calling and you definitely have yours. If I look to you AJ I see someone who not only understands but who have a wonderful heart. I believe that you can also help millions more.

So I can say thank you again AJ that there was someone like you who are standing by my side and who was willing to help me. Thanks for the part you played in my life."
Peter F, Free State, SA
Compiled with permission from various emails


"Man Im gonna share with you something Ive never told anyone. Ive been waiting for it and todays audio came at a perfect time!

At 31 I became a father. If you have kids you know, if not I will tell you: The moment a newborn enters the room, it is instantly filled with the most extreme love you can imagine! When we had our daughter and I got to hold her, I had the most powerful love-explosion I ever could imagine!

My heart was connecting to my newborn and I was at the deepest level her father, for life. The love was pure. true and so honest!

At that time my brain had it, could not take it! It could not handle it! It had been porn-wired for a long time and thats the anti-love. At first it keep saying fuck fuck, hell hell and stuff like that. Very disturbing to a first time father! I felt only love but my brain something else.

Later on it became even more disgusting, to a level that was hurting me very bad and I was haunted with the most disgusting words whenever I held my child. It took about a year or so to clean out, flush my dirty mind clean(er) I was so ashamed!

2 years later we had another child. I was nervous as hell for that experience to return. It didn't and we had a little boy. I was so relieved! It happened just after me starting to get your mails. So thats my story, and I promise my family to stay clean!

I really appreciate you trying to help your fellow brothers. Mostly brothers I suppose..:) I can't wait to hear from you again, your mails are always appreciate and longed for! Thank you for all that you do man, you save lives!"
Rob, Sweden


Here is an additional follow-up from Rob later:

"Well, I never thought I could stop in six months. Here I am with no big setback! The transformation has been rough at times. My mind is so badly wired from porn. You know theres absolutely no humanity in porn ! Ive gotten married and got a second child since your first mail so the rewards are huge! I still long for the quick fix when im tired or stressed, but my 2yr ord told me I was the worlds strongest yesterday. And thats what I need to be! For My family! Your work is great! Keep it up man! And thank you!"
Rob, Sweden


"I have been doing very well and l can finally say l have quit and haven,t looked back. It was a very long and emotional journey for me but l realized that once l got over the break up that led to depression and then porn l became alive and didn't need to indulge in porn.Some days l felt like going back but l kept reminding myself that there is more to life.

Thank you for all the resources that you provided me with they where of great help to me and l know it will continue helping others like me..

Thank you loads AJ"
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"I would definitely recommend this course, it has helped me to turn my life around from almost losing everything that I loved to having my family and my respect back. When I started I never thought I would brake this cycle but with AJs help I did it. He is a great guy and he cares about everyone that is on his course, and always there to have a chat if you need some extra guidance and advice."
Dan S, UK


"Hi AJ, I sincerely appreciate the videos you are sending to me, It is really inspiring what you are doing, keep it up, you are doing something truly special"
GM, Vancouver


"With the help of porn free power, I find that as much as it is hard to quit this the is still a choice. You either choose to fall in your desire or use your power to say NO! and follow the guidance to do something else. Thanks AJ!"
Joseph


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