Use Your Curiosity to Help You Quit Porn [Video]

The video below presents an interesting way to harness the power of your curiosity to help you quit porn.

Whenever he says “food” or “cigarettes” in the video, you can pretty much replace those words with “porn”, and it will apply perfectly.

One caution: at around 3:50, he talks about an approach where he told people in his quit smoking program to smoke.

I strongly advise AGAINST using this exact approach when it comes to watching porn.

Unlike porn (which the brain perceives as sex), smoking isn’t something we’re naturally wired to seek, and is in fact something we inherently find unnatural and repulsive.

That’s why I believe this specific technique he describes would work for smoking but not necessarily for pornography (or even food for that matter).

Plus, watching more porn obviously strengthens the brain pathways that we want to weaken, and so it may cause more harm than good.

So instead of actually watching porn when a temptation arises, I recommend applying the overall principles in this video by simply focussing your curiosity on things like:

The feelings and cravings you’re experiencing.
Questioning why you want to use porn so much.
Questioning whether porn will even give you what you really need.

It’s also very powerful to focus on what you want in life more than porn (this is covered in detail in the free porn addiction recovery guide).

Master Your Urges

Moments when you’re feeling a porn urge are so critical.

If you let them lead you toward porn, you’ll keep sliding further down the slippery slope of addiction.

But if you make a different decision that leads you away from porn in that moment, you can powerfully rewire your brain and make it much easier to handle urges constructively next time.

Use the principles of mindfulness and curiosity in this video to help you do that.

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Here is an additional follow-up from Rob later:

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